I actually just left my job because I felt like I lost all of my ability to negotiate. I had some stuff happen last year and I went into my default people pleasing role as a way to kepp my sanity. I took a break from work and went back feeling refreshed and finished with over operating and I could feel so much more new tension with people bc I wasnt bending over backwards anymore. I let it get out of hand too much and I wasnt willing to stick around to try and re-introduce who I really am. This article really summed everything up perfectly.
I actually just left my job because I felt like I lost all of my ability to negotiate. I had some stuff happen last year and I went into my default people pleasing role as a way to kepp my sanity. I took a break from work and went back feeling refreshed and finished with over operating and I could feel so much more new tension with people bc I wasnt bending over backwards anymore. I let it get out of hand too much and I wasnt willing to stick around to try and re-introduce who I really am. This article really summed everything up perfectly.